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Boundaries are guidelines, rules and limits, the purpose of which are to be able to relate to one another without hurting or doing damage to one other. They are for protection of ourselves and those who relate closely to us. Some boundaries are societal or global, some are personal. Whatever type they are, the general goal is the same. Boundaries help to define us as a people, and personally, as individuals. Boundaries set limits for each person individually. They make clear

All people who dissociate have certain characteristics in common: • They have the hereditary ability to form personalities/alters by splitting their personality. • They have all been traumatized by some form of abuse. The abuse may be intentional or unintentional. The trauma arises out of verbal, physical, sexual, emotional, psychological and other traumas. Sexual, physical and Satanic ritual abuse are common. They may be traumatized in the womb, the birthing process, neglect

We See What We Want to See Human beings, including the professional communities, see what they want to see. The Christian counselor and the psychological community suffer from preconceived ideas of the past and inadequate research to the point that they almost function in isolation from one another. We see what we want to see. Even if something exists, we will often not be aware of it when we refuse to consider it as improbable or if it doesn’t match our idea of what should b